I played a bit more with resistors on a breadboard torturing single jfet, and well amplification is about 1,1, but it clips simetrically inside just one transistor, and the best part is i am dc coupled with the scope and my sine stay in the middle of scope screen
for bf257a jfet that is 12v power suply source at 2,3v, drain at 7,6v and since this j fet is a max 20mA drain current it will like working with 1,6mA quite happyly
values for the resistors were picked at random untill i was happy but i based my search of a tube simulating preamp from rugoffgruves.com so i started with 1,5k source resistor and worked my way down with gate resistor to around 2,4k. it is not a front end stage mind you just a distortion stage since it requires input voltage of 1,9Vrms (2,7 Vp if my math is right)to start cliping and guitar gives 10 times less.
In perfect word i would just have to build a buffer and npn stage as a drive section and feed it into that, with overal gain of around 20 times the input, and i might clamp it with zeners at around 6Vpp, anyway Max swing from npn common emiter would be around 7,5V (2,65Vrms) with 12V power suply so i think it will be doable.
i think it will get more complicated that it needs to be but i might actually make it work :]
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I cobled together an intermediate stage to produce voltage gain, as stated before i used npn transistor. Initially bc547c but i found some bc550c so i switched to lower noise version. diference is minimal.
After playing with biasing this stage i got pretty crazy looking voltage gain, and i am still a bit shocked how much this transistor can swing before it start distorting. because it produced 4Vrms from 12V power suply, it almost swing rail to rail. IT was biased so it touches both sides of cliping at the same time, the only problem with npn is, it want to go beyound that 4 volts in rather wierd way, so after hitting the wall signal changes into 50% duty cycle pwm signal, where any aditional input signal strength makes it asymetrical like changing the duty cycle. Still it looks awesome on a scope screen and even the kit power amp sounds good.
Doesn't go much into overdrive with guitar signal though, need to tweak front end to more than 1.1 gain and it be perfect (well as much as something like that can be)
i also find out why kit amp sounded so distorted. in it's preamp stage they used npn bc550 like i did only it was either typo or bad design because in the same topology they biased base to ground with the 470k resistor, for me it ended up being 47k exactly all the rest of components being the same.