Thanks for the suggestions everyone!
Let me add some context if I may. The whole system is for a high altitude balloon that will be carrying some potentially expensive equipment. For this reason, my role in the project is to create an absolutely bulletproof reliable power supply. This is only one part of the larger system which includes a whole lot of independently regulated outputs, each with their own protection and redundancy.
I am also trying to build everything solid-state because it is not yet clear what effect the low pressure environment will have on the system. There will be low temperature too but that is taken care of with both the electronics dissipated heat plus an external heater.
The loads themselves include sensitive devices such as MCU's and radios, that's why I think it has to be high-side.
In reality, the power supply will likely be nowhere near 8A most of the time. There are three things that throw a spanner in the works. First, we must power an unknown payload that could be up to 25W. Secondly, there is a balloon termination system (detaches the parachute from the balloon prematurely if needed) which can draw up to 2A for about 15s and thirdly, there is a heater with bang-bang control (which as we do more research on this, the more unlikely it seems we are going to need it). Nevertheless, I am designing for a worst-case current situation where everything is on at the same time.
The reason for the backup battery is that it must be a physically separate power source. If the main battery fails or runs flat, we can terminate the balloon, switch off non-essential loads and bring it down safely. It was an oversight on my behalf to think I could do that with a standard 9V Lithium battery, or even a couple in parallel. I think what I might do is just use more 18650's unless anyone can think of a more energy dense battery that could be used (bearing in mind weight)?
If I swap the LDO out for a 15V boost converter, will this work?
Alternatively, I found this magic mosfet! And it has easy to use leads! (
https://www.digikey.co.nz/product-detail/en/infineon-technologies/BTS6142DAUMA1/BTS6142DAUMA1CT-ND/3819676)
It's perhaps a little overkill being rated to 33A, and it is pretty expensive (4.26NZD) but it has some protection features which can act as a redundancy to Efuses I am already using elsewhere in the circuit. When I searched for magic mosfets (or load switches as they are officially names) this was the cheapest >10A rated one I could find that was in stock, had a minimum order of 1 and wasn't a QFN type package. I think for a one-off highly critical application such as this, it is worth it. One question I have about it though. The description of the input pin says "activates the power switch if shorted to ground". Does this mean that this is an active-low device? Also would I still need diodes given the power supplies are still facing each other?
Anyway, you have been an enormous help so far. Really keen to hear your suggestions.
Cheers!