Spacing between stencil apertures doesn't matter so much, just make sure your stencil has the right aperture reduction so you have appropriate pad coverage (70-85%), and has the appropriate thickness for your pin density (ie, soic can be like 0.15mm thick stencil but 0.6mm bga needs 0.1mm thick stencil). If your stencil manufacturer does electropolishing, i recommend it, it makes the solder release much easier fro mthe stencil.