PS: Automotive electronics is built to one and only one spec: CHEAP!
That statement is complete and utter nonsense of the highest degree.
While the auto industry is indeed extremely cost-sensitive, that is most decidedly not the SOLE criterion. Weight is another one.
But what sets automotive electronics apart from ordinary consumer electronics is one big thing: reliability. Because so many automotive electronics systems are safety-critical, they must meet reliability standards set out by regulators as well as the automakers’ own legal departments, who assess liability. The end result is that they must design most of the electronics to be extremely reliable. Moreover, even non-safety-critical electronics, like audio systems, need to be reliable enough to avoid damage to the company’s reputation. (And if a non-critical device, like the audio system, gets used for safety-critical or regulated purposes, like using the audio system to play the turn indicator clicks and warning chimes, then the audio system’s reliability has to meet the reliability requirements of the critical systems.)
Furthermore, the automotive environment is a quite hostile one. Automotive electronics must handle temperature extremes (ca. -40C to 110C), humidity extremes (0% to 100%), constant vibration, g-forces, dust and water ingress, and in at least some cases, chemical fumes (like fuel vapors). The automotive
electrical environment is notoriously rough, too, with tons of noise from the ignition system, ground loops (because the chassis is normally the ground), plus significant variations in voltage.
The result of the need for high reliability in a hostile environment is that automotive electronics are designed carefully and tested rigorously. They employ all kinds of methods rarely used in consumer products, like conformal coatings and sealed connectors, as well as solderless through-hole connectors (press-fit into plated holes) because they handle vibration much better.
Will they try to shave off cost wherever possible? Of course, and why shouldn’t they? But they also know very well that they need to meet their reliability requirements at the end of the day.