Multimeter probe tips are not a universal standard, especially the plastic adjacent to the tip. I would look for grabbers made by the same company as the probes.
I don't like the weight of a whole multimeter probe hanging off mini or micro grabber/hook test probes. However, as I don't have a multi-channel bench DMM, I don't want dedicated full length test leads with hook/grabber ends as swapping leads just to check some non-grabbable test point is a PITA, and storage space in the DMM case is usually at a premium by the time I've thrown in some alligator clip adaptors.
If I'm swapping to grabber a lot, then I prefer a set with modular banana leads that I can plug either probes or grabbers in, like the
Probemaster 8000 series or similar Pomona or Hirschmann parts (I like the Hirschmann spring loaded probes more than the competition). For me leads with fixed probes, with a grabber adapter, just get too heavy and bulky to be usable. Having clips stay attached is enough of a struggle without having a heavy, long probe hanging off of them.
If I'm using mostly grabbers with the occasional probing, than the
Parrot Clips are a decent compromise for me. Pretty strong and light grabbers that can grab to most through-hole components (though useless for SMT), and a tip that is sharp enough for not too fine-pitched probing: DIP and discretes are fine, I wouldn't try SOIC or anything finer.