The confusion seems to be on terminology:
Order refers to the number of poles. It doesn't matter where they are (as long as they are finite). A filter with a pole each at 1kHz and 1GHz, is still a two-pole filter.
Sharpness is due to the distribution of poles. In particular, poles should cluster together, typically zero or one real poles and the rest as complex pairs, and typically in some convenient geometric distribution (IIRC, Bessel lie on an ellipse, Butterworth on a circle centered on the origin, Chebyshev on a circle offset right of the origin?), but there is no necessity for this to be the case. Indeed, practical filters might have a multitude of intentional and parasitic poles and zeroes, and perhaps additional poles added to smooth them out (for example, a filter that needs good attenuation over many decades, might have "clean up" stages with poles deep in the stopband to anticipate those zeroes).
"Homework" is... perhaps insensitive, granted. But these definitions are readily found in the textbook, and easily seen when working equations (in simplified rational form, the order of the denominator polynomial is the order of the filter, and its roots are the filter's poles). It's an invitation to refresh rusty knowledge and practice -- I'm half tempted to do the homework myself, honestly, I could probably use it. I've done the 2nd order (RC) case before, and that was many years ago. The 3rd order case is sure to be a mess, but in there, shall be found a cubic polynomial all the same.
Tim