thank you all guys for helping, all that is helpful already!
the text book touched upon recombination, but no details at all, which is fine.
i did do a LTspice simulation on a shunt biased bjt amplifier in common emitter configuration, and kept reducing the two resistor values to get larger and larger collector and base current, and the THD kept going down. when collector current was around 65ma to 200ma, say, the THD got very low, to something like 0.000028%. that made me wonder about how iB2 is related to iC.
it makes sense the base region is doped much lighter, maybe that's where hFE come from, and it may also have to do with reduced hFE at low current density, only a wild guess.
i don't really need a quantative rigorous mathematical analysis on this, i won't be able to understand it anyway. just some qualitative idea on what is going on inside a bjt will do.
so all has been helpful, thank you guys!