Well I have solved it by what I deemed to be a Kirchoff method however I still end up with a simultaneous equation. I expect many of the possible results are going to end in a simultaneous equation as a result is tied to the fact that there are 2 variables that are at the same time independent and linked together. So I think I will leave it at that.
Let \$R\$ be the unknown resistance of the lower section of the potentiometer in \$\text{k}\Omega\$. Then the resistance of the upper section is \$10-R\$.
A current balance (KCL) around the potentiometer wiper junction gives:
$$\frac{6}{10-R}=\frac{3}{5}+\frac{3}{R}$$
I totally agree with the solution posted by IanB, and just want to add some additional considerations :
I have been given the attached questions to solve. I was assuming they would expect me to use Kuirchoffs laws however after a lot of attempts at trying to write equations I find I cannot write anything that will allow me to work this one out. However intuitively I already know the answer the potentiometer needs to be at 50% position because when it is 5K load and the 5K in the pot will produce 2.5 K leaving 5K in series which is a 2 to one ratio which is what is required to produce 3 V on the pot wiper.
The problem with the intuitive resolution, is that it can be applied here only because the problem is simple and the values
of the voltage and resistors are chosen in a way that all the calculus is simple.
But if you take
8.34 V ; 2.55 V ; 12kR ; 4.7 kR
instead of
12 V ; 3V ; 10 kR ; 5 kR;
you will see that there will no longer be an intuitive solution, and only a proper setting of the equations will
lead to the result.
Now faced to any problem, you need to ask yourself about the number of unknowns in the problem.
An electrical circuit with a network of resistors and a voltage source is entirely determined once the values of the resistors
and voltage source are known : all node voltage can be computed as well as all currents in the branches of the network.
Here in the original setting, you have two unknowns \$R\$, the lower resistance of the pot and \$R'\$ the upper part.
You thus need two additional relations to solve the circuit.
The first one is given by the fact that the two resistors are linked as the two sides of the pot :
$$ R + R' = 10 $$
(by the way, in agreement with IanB, I advise to drop the units when you set up your equations, as leaving them
will just obfuscate the computations).
So \$R'=10-R \$ and you are left with a single unknown.
The second relation will be provided by the additional information that is provided with the 3V voltage at one node.
The best way to set up the equation is to avoid the introduction of any additional variable. So
$$\frac{6}{10-R}=\frac{3}{5}+\frac{3}{R}$$
is a good relation.
Once this is written, you know that your problem is solved. You have one equation, with only one unknown.
The remaining part is just calculus.
Face to any problem of the kind, even very complicated, you have to distinguish the two phases :
A) proper physical modelisation and setting of the equations
B) resolution of the equations.
Most often, the difficult part is A), but mixing A) and B) just leads to additional confusion.