seem likes Rs485is the best bet.I'm not sure i understand the need to be insulator tho .
the cabel is inside the same building
Sometimes you will encounter sockets running on different phases of the mains.
Often you find different neutral leads at different potentials above ground potential, especially if there is heavy machinery or a higher load on one phase than another.
In some circumstances different bits of ground can be at very different potentials (that's why, if you are caught in the open in a thunderstorm, you shouldn't stand with legs apart, or kneel down!). "Ground" and "earth" are a convenient fiction in both RF and mains supplies
And then there are the gross wiring/installation faults that have - so far - gone unnoticed.
If you connect a conductor where
any of those are present, a current will flow until the magic smoke is emitted from something or someone.
Notice I haven't even bothered to mention interference that might corrupt your signal - that's comparatively trivial.