Sorry, can't help much on the recovery.
Yes, they are and I'm aware of it when I bought different brands of modular PSUs, say like Seasonic, Corsair and etc.
Luckily I did test them when I bought my 2nd modular PSU maybe decade ago, and it was quite shocking to find out how dangerous they are if mixed with other brand.
One habit I developed is, as I only use modular PSUs, when unpacking them while new, I diligently and instantly labelled "all" cables that where they belong to, as we all know, somehow through times, maybe for years until we forget them, where we tucked all of these unused cables, stacked and scrambled in drawer and pulled one out to use it, dire accident is just waiting to happen.