Paul, chris_leyson pointed that out in the third post. I haven't yet had much opportunity to work with A/C in electronics beyond getting from mains to dc output in a ps. Almost all my experience with A/C comes from the perspective of electrical wiring, not electronics. Thanks for the link and page number. Now I understand why I've seen some A/C solenoids with an integral capacitor. Back EMF has always meant "flyback diode" to me exclusively. So much to learn.
I understand it is good to practice back EMF protection in all circuits, but I'm curious... at some point, wouldn't it be unnecessary? I mean, if using a small solenoid, say 50 mA and a 10 A rated relay, the contacts would be too huge, I would think, for the tiny arc generated to heat up the contacts enough to wear? Just a hypothetical, not trying to justify not using protection.
Also, how is suppression implemented on larger scale circuitry? I just robbed a relay out of my central A/C compressor after having the unit replaced and saw nothing across the load. Did I miss it? How about larger industrial scale? Generally, we're talking knife switch disconnects, but there are big switching relays too, I imagine (1 kA?). Do they just oversize the contacts and replace them more frequently?