as every one knows, they are cheap and available everywhere, I have some gates and flip flops
It would be nice if someone has long experience in digital electronics would recommend us list from the 74 family that he used over the years that he might think they are useful to have
In my experience that will not be helpful. Nowadays, in most parts of the world, you can order the components you need and have them delivered remarkably quickly and cheaply. =
For many reasons, the best technique is to work out what you want do, work out how you want to do it, then simulate the circuit either by hand or by using a "proper" simulator. And then buy
all the components including PSU, decoupling components, and circuit board (preferably not a springleaf breadboard).