Thanks for the replies, and info.
My style of learning is make something break it, fix it, then put two of the things I learned together and see what I get.
Learning from lectures on web sites, is not my thing. Get a book dog ear the corners, put pieces of paper in as bookmarks, write comments on the pages, that is how I like to learn. I would prefer to learn from someone in person one on one, but that is way more money then I have. Would also like to start downloading info sheets on the parts and get to understand what they can tell me.
Once I have learned something would like to do like the Great Scott videos and put them on perf board and get better at soldering, and even use KiCad to learn how that works, in case there is a need to get boards made in china.
I know there is a lot of other websites and I am thankful for the suggestions, but for now just looking for info on the three things I posted, are they a good purchase? If not then exploring other books or websites will have to be done.
Just wondering if the books are well written and can up my knowledge of electronic. As for the box of parts, just wondering if there is a good selection of parts to get started with, like the fact that it is in one box ( do not have much room to store things so hording parts will never be a problem). The tester in the box I have on and with another unit, I can start to mod it and upload and download new programs to it, if it brakes then there is the fun of trying to fix it.
Is there a parts list guide someplace to download and then make sure that all the parts will be there to get started with.
Thanks ever one for you info and input, it is all helpful.