I have been using the Kester 63/37 because of its abrupt change from liquid to solid (all 63/37 mixes).
I think its 0.031" diameter. Good over all diameter. Might be just a little big for SMD parts.
That's my "daily driver" solder, too. Excellent stuff in absolute terms, and at a good price, too. I will probably pick up a reel of the .020" at some point. Or maybe of the Sn62Pb36Ag2, even.
I have a reel of .015" Kester 63/37 with
282 water-white RMA flux that I got from a surplus mail order back around 1990. (Turns out this is quite expensive solder that costs around $200 a reel at normal price!) It works well for SMD, if I don't just decide to drag solder.