Needs extremely high gain, so a darlignton.
Can be made from 2x discrete transistors, as well as the Sziklai pair, which can sometimes be preferred.
Needs to be a Mosfet
Needs to be a P Mosfet
Aliexpress is your friend here, as long as you're ok with general-purpose transistors for use in low-voltage circuits and don't absolutely need the very best values of Rds(on). Yes the part numbers are not to be trusted, they are always fake, at least for the brand name transistors such as IR. However, it doesn't make them useless: for example, it's easy to find ones with Rds(on) at or below 10 mOhm which are fine to use as switches in low-voltage circuits. Read the reviews, those where people post actual measurements. If you know gate capacitance (which is a function of the die size) and Rds(on), you can estimate the boundaries of the transistor's applicability for your own purposes.
Buy a YR-1035 (aka TR-1035) to measure your DS milliohms at different GS charge voltages. Expensive? Not so, really, but if you think it is, build a CC source and measure Rds via the voltage drop across DS.
Know your transistors.
Then you start on "logic levels" and the perils of using transistors with MCUs.
These are far from general purpose parts, so not to be expected to be in the kits anyway. But, you can always use a workaround. Buy or build a step-up dc-dc converter to power the gate driving circuitry. Get a bunch of really handy isolated
5V->12V converters, power them from the MCU's 5V rail, or, if all you have is 3V, there are
3V->12V devices, and you're no longer limited to the logic level voltage.
Necessity is the mother of invention.
Try to design your circuits in a way that they don't need very special parts and that any part could be replaced by something generic instead of trying to stock up on fancy stuff.
But do maintain a shopping list so you're ready to order what you need once it's long enough to justify the P&P costs.
Looks great in the tutorials until you attempt it and your rather noisy 6V turns into a lovely smooth 3V and the transistor starts to glow red.
Some tutorials mention thermal management and the fact that real components aren't ideal. Some don't and assume that it's the reader's responsibility (and you should always assume it is). Don't trust anyone. Verify. Simulate.