Yeh... what voltage?
If this is 240V mains as I would guess from your icon, you'll be hard pressed to find one that doesn't! Even the MOC3xxx optos are rated for that (albeit, peak only; they're never rated for continuous operation).
If isolation is part of the deal, I would recommend an AC-type SSR. Otherwise, yeah, TO-92 is about as small as it gets, or SOT-89 if you can fit it on a board, and heatsink that somewhat.
Tim