can i just omit the spdt switch then join the wires together so you can hear both mics at the same time?
Yes, you probably can. You might need to reduce the value of the resistor (R3) that feeds power to the microphones. If you get horrible distortion try dropping the value by half.
Also, in that schematic there is a 10K resistor (R1) connected the the amplifier output, through a capacitor. I'm pretty sure that resistor should be 10 Ohms, not 10K Ohms. That's there to stop oscillations.