well glad someone with competent english tried to clear that up. i said earlier, the reason to not to do it is if you dont have enough knowledge, so try to gain knowledge (or experience) before doing it. and besides my short video, its backep up by facts and science (unless you have something factual to say otherwise). you can google (i forgot what too lazy to find) how much clearence before 240Vac arc, iirc its so tiny to care of or compared to clerarance in common devices or pcb. and i'm also talking about low wattage load, assuming thats what the OP meant. agreed we dont usually engineer things close to its rated capacity, esp if we dont have enough experience and using no-brand-name devices. but lighting up 18W bulb with 30A relay? come on! thats only 18W/240V = 75mA load, thats 400X safety factor. if i'm not mistaken, 30A rating is based on how much the contacts can take before arc deposition problem become "out of spec", granted higher voltage will create longer arc during transient hence faster deposition rate, but what the hell, 400X safety factor should compensate, no? everything will eventually die, even the rated one.
just because you have seen tragedy doesnt means it always apply to other scenarios in not so similar manner, abandon ship of electrocutephobia, use your senses and use by knowledge. i also crynged when seeing video like photoinduction and mikeelectricstuff, but they eventually did it didnt they? but that not necessarily means to justify its not safe or safe, its just because i dont have proper knowledge for it or no guts enough to take the risk, hence i'm not doing it, i want to do it? i better gear up, thats the first thing you should do. something is not safe because its not well understood, correct? once you have the knowledge, you may forget the paperwork, thats only for muggles who are ignorant enough to race for the knowledge, those paperwork is made by those "knowledgable people anyway" for a very specific (well understood) condition to occur... no?