Sense resistors, by definition, must sense current for feedback. If you don't connect them to the opamp, they just become dissipating loads, which could be good, but you have to sense ALL of the current and send it as a feedback to the opamp.
Putting BJTs in parallel can be a problem if they do not have each a resistor in series. Otherwise, the one which conducts slightly more current will heat the more and so increase its conductivity. Then it will burn, and the other transistors will do the same one at a time.
MOSFETs are good for paralleling.