I would disagree about the ev price. it depends on what ev you are looking at.
the most common one in the bay area is the model 3 and its incredible how many you see around here. and while the other teslas *are* truely overpriced and 'rich mans toys', the model 3 is normally priced. I was driving a vw passat for the past 16 years and when I finally sold it and went with a model 3, the cost of the car was about the same as my vw. car insurance was LOWER with my tesla. ownership price is probably going to be lower. and for bay area fueld costs, its definitely cheaper to drive and electric (and if you get free charging at work, which is more and more common, now, then its not even close, anymore).
its definitely not for everyone and every area of the world. for me, being in the bay area, it was not a hard decision. its my only car, I don't have a 2nd one and I don't even have home charging; but I'm not planning on going back to ICE, ever, if I can avoid it.
is there 'range anxiety' for those that don't have home charging? yes, to some degree. I don't wake up every day with a fully charged car; but I'm close enough to work that I can get there, recharge there and even have enough juice to be able to run home during the day for any random errand, run back to work and still have enough for the commute home and back again.
definitely an adjustment. you do have to be good at planning. but I think its totally worth it and very glad I converted over.