Hi
The displays that i am talking about are spares for the following NOKIA1202, NOKIA1110 and NOKIA1600.
The 1202 has the solderable type connector with SSOP pitch and 0.25mm wide pads - it can be a little tricky for hand soldering but has two 0.8mm alignment holes in the proximity of the pads that can be used for alignment.
The 1110 and 1600 have a hirose DF23-10DS (DF23C-10DS-0.5V(51) - manufacturer part number) connector.
The 1110 & 1600 have the same pinout configuration and share some of the commands with the remark that 1600 is 4k color enabled.
All the displays work on 3.3V rail, no external negative PS is needed nor any other type of extra components - apart for the .1u cap for the LCD logic
I found the connector on Farnell and Mouser and the price is about 0.52$ / pcs going down to 0.315$US / 1k. As a separate remark i received a price offer from Converege in february this year and they offered one reel of approx 4200 at 0.27$.pcs.
The drivers for 1110&1202 are available if necessary, the 1600 version is advanced state ongoing project.
As for the uC personally i am a big fan of LPC1114-TQFT33 if you consider the price for 48MHz, 32K FLASH, 8K RAM is really cheap. For this project LPC 11U14 or 11U13 could be a good candidate. They have a little less RAM but has built in USB connection and USB stack and that can help specially if you want to add USB features (logging, monitoring, pram setting, etc.).
My choice for uC was also motivated by the fact that NXP teamed up with Embedded Artists and CODE RED and produced a very affordable toolchain (HW&SW) for entry level users.
Ovidiu