Use an Arduino!
It's two minutes' work to write a sketch that waits a minimum time between claps.
It can output pulses to your counter for display.
pinMode(counterOut,OUTPUT);
pinMode(clap,INPUT_PULLUP);
if (digitalRead(clap)==0) {
// This creates 20ms of delay before it will recognize another clap
// Adjust timing as needed
digitalWrite(counterOut,LOW);
delay(10);
digitalWrite(counterOut,HIGH);
delay(10);
}