I do not understand the problem with interfacing to the 8500. The manual describes the protocol and it works exactly as described.
I have been using some 8500 for battery test for a few years and the communication is very stable, usual I only have a problem about two times a year and it is probably windows that is the problem.
But low power load may not be as precise, the load do use some current for its measuring circuit. I have never bothered with measuring how much, but just stayed at 0.1A and above for my loads and using some other equipment when I need test at lower currents.