The main problem we have, is hearing 'modern' RAP crap!! I'm sorry, but that's not 'Music'. Why do
some 'lyrics' about drugs, mother-fu@#$%s, guns, & the Bronx in N.Y. have to do with life here??
Real songs are about true love, happiness & joy, a bit of fun, and the occasional blues/country.
Our music nights are happy, with sing-alongs & instruments, but that's just us...
I don't endorse many of the recurring themes in (popular) hip-hop, but I think you are missing some of the interesting/different perspectives that hip-hop often provides. Again, not a fan of the derogatory treatment/objectification of women, violence, etc...But, it is interesting to view some of these "bad things" through the lens of the people who create it. And, I should mention, there is a lot of highly intellectual and introspective rap out there. It's just the big labels like to push the most derogatory stuff...big surprise.
A lot of rap/hip-hop is based on the hardships of urban life. Sure, "it doesn't have much to do with life there, if that's the attitude you want to have about it. But, there's always something to be learned about life (in general), when we listen to others. Don't we read books, fiction or non-fiction, to do something like that?
Again, there is a lot of crappy, popular hip-hop music which probably
won't make you a better, more "worldly" person. But there definitely is some which can give you some perspective.