I know this is not necessarily going to help others, but I do think the way mathematics is taught has a lot to blame for this. It's like the analogy of learning music. Do you learn music first by learning musical notation and theory on paper, or do you learn first how to pick up an instrument and make music? Mathematics is like music. If you don't learn as a child how to hear and play the music of mathematics, it will be always harder than it ought to be.
Yeah. And when I complained above about using the same letter in three or four different styles within a formula, from which CatalinaWOW made a straw man, I was not exaggerating, I was dead serious. I have no issue with
dt, especially if it's explained somewhere. But I
did have major issues with a formula which contained letter "r" in four and letter "e" in three different meanings, all in different shapes and forms. It just... makes my brain lock. Distinguishing between r, R,
r,
r, r with ^ on top, R stylized as cursive, all within the same formula, simply wastes time and mental effort. Maybe somebody else just looks at the text and the symbols intuitively enter their brain. When I see such formula for the first time and not understand it, I try to read it out loud in my mind. If it reads out [r r r e x r e r], the things only get worse, and I'm stuck.
I was straight-A full scores in mathematics in high school and until about half of the first year in uni. At some point my motivation started drooping as the pace increased, while the disconnect between engineering-minded courses and math courses widened at the same time. It was clear that to truly understand the math courses, I would have had to invest
a lot more time to the matter, finding secondary sources apart from the lectures, official lecture notes, and maybe indeed invent my own notation. It did not happen.