One problem is that when i bid i instantly get outbid, i've tried this a few times.
Even now, while writing this post i placed a bid and got instantly outbid.
Have any of you had this issue or is it just me?
It is you - but it is a simple misunderstanding.
EBay's proxy bidding system makes sure you pay no more than you need to to win an auction. It is NOT like an ordinary auction.
Let's say you bid $25 on an item. If you notice, eBay calls that your
maximum bid amount. If you place that bid on an item with a $5 starting price, eBay's system will only use $5 as your bid. The $25 amount is held on eBay's system and is not shown to anybody.
Now let's say someone else wants to bid and they are prepared to throw $100 at it, even though the "Current bid" (yours) is only showing $5. The eBay system will use as much of that $100 as it needs to beat your bid - which is $25, plus an amount they call the "bid increment". For $25, the bid increment is $1 - so you will be outbid by an amount of $25 + $1 = $26.
You see that you have been outbid and come back with a bid of $50. The eBay system then repeats the process and your $50 bid gets beaten by the bid increment and the other person is still winning, but with an amount of $51. This happens immediately, which is why you get outbid straight away.
Bid again with $60, $70 and $80 and you will get outbid every time. It's not until you put in a bid that is
greater than the other person's maximum bid that you will be winning.
The fun part of this is - you can never know what the other person's maximum bid is until you beat it (or get within the bid increment below it - which is not common).
It is this mechanism that allows someone to put in a big bid amount with the hope that the second highest bidder is not prepared to go as high.
It is important to understand that the final sale price is NOT dependent on the winning bidder. It is the
second highest bidder that sets the price to beat (plus a bid increment). You could put $1000 on an auction, but if the next highest bidder doesn't go over $100, then you will only have to pay $101.