Well of course they're big, but that's only because the Arduino is a standardized sizee, required to expose all those pins on the side with a standardized connector, with 0.1" pitch (2.54mm)
It's unlikely you're going to find something ready made in that format, but you can get the pcb layout for arduino (it's open source hardware I think) and remove everything you don't need. Just the same, you can get one of those bluetooth modules and redesign it to fit in the size you want.
If you're a complete beginner, naturally this is not for you...
I didn't say buy them, I said inspire yourself from them and make your own, or hire someone to do it for you.