As one of her fans since she first showed up on the net, I've observed several factors in her story:
* There are large numbers of very negative people on the net, who just like to try and tear down anyone who seems to be doing well. The more successful someone is, the more the losers attack. You can find many discussions of this mentality, with labels like psychopaths and narcissists. There really are many people who just waste good oxygen.
* Reacting to and engaging the losers, just gives them more incentive to continue attacking. The only practical way to deal with them is to completely ignore them.
* Something in Naomi's character makes her unable to ignore detractors, no matter how absurd their attacks. She spends way too much time in battles with Trolls. She always easily and spectacularly wins in the eyes of fair observers, but she can never ultimately win that war since there are infinite numbers of Trolls.
About her assumed persona:
* In her teens she identified a problem: How to avoid the unbearable fate of becoming one of millions of anonymous factory workers? I gather her family/financial situation didn't allow for the university path. Her solution was brilliant, and shows an incredible creativity, intelligence and determination. She self-taught herself enough coding skills to freelance, earned enough money for the boob job, and made herself into 'Sexy Cyborg'. The entire purpose was to stand out. Which she very effectively does.
* It's important to realize that her boob job was not for the same purpose as many women get breast enlargements. Typically it's to make money by pandering to (some) male's fetish, doing porn, marrying some rich guy. In her case it was part of a theme - becoming an artificial person, a cyborg, while pursuing a public technology arc. It's more like a kind of artform. I don't like fake boobs in general, but admire her choices for their creativity.
* The 'minimal permissible clothing' thing is a thematically consistent part of her persona. What many people who only bother to seek the extremes of her range don't realize, is that she adapts her style to the social expectations of where she is. When she went to a Maker show in Thailand for instance, she dressed quite conservatively. Still very bright and stand-out, but well covered. I think people who avoid inviting her to mainstream Maker shows don't bother to even ask how she'd dress at their show. Or maybe it's true they have other reasons for excluding her they'd rather not state, and just use the clothing stuff as an excuse.
* Having grown up in China, which is pretty blase about such things as clothing choices, she didn't anticipate something she encountered when her network persona went global. Religion-based wowsers, in America particularly. I'm pretty sure she walked into that one entirely unprepared. She still doesn't really get it - that it doesn't matter what she says or does, her appearance just triggers the witch-burning instinctive hate reflex in a lot of sexually repressed types. They don't even know why they react that way or how stupid it is, and they are certainly not going to change their attitudes under any circumstances. This blends with the Narcissist hate response, into a very poisonous result. Luckily she's not within geographical reach of those guys, or it would be mobs with flaming torches and pitchforks time.
Anyway, she can't resist trying to argue with them. Bad luck for her.
* There's really only one mystery about Naomi. Many of her photos and videos are selfie stick or tripod sets. But some are taken by another person. Who has never, ever been shown. At most sometimes an extra meal set at her table. Might even be multiple people at different times, friends, family, boyfriend, etc. Doesn't matter. They are not doing the projects, she is.
* I know for sure it's her conceiving and carrying out her own projects, not due to what she achieves, but rather what fails. She has had a few fails, and they are all exactly what I would expect from someone with her background, age, and lack of experience. If she had an older, more tech-experienced person helping, guiding or scripting her, those fails would not have happened. For instance one of them was her trying to implement a driver circuit for her LCD-see-through skirt. She wanted to matrix drive it, in patterns. She bought a proto plug board, and tried to implement the scanning circuit on it. Nice try, probably would have worked, except in pics of the proto board I could see she doesn't understand about grounding, supply caps, ringing on lines, etc. She got very frustrated over why it didn't work. She has no oscilloscope btw, would someone PLEASE give her one and show her how to use it? (I would, but she refuses to communicate.) Anyway, it was an electronics nube conceptual mistake, that revealed she definitely does not have anyone knowledgeable helping her with even basic electronics theory. She's fiercely independent, will sometimes ask for advice among her circles, but other times tries to smash through all on her own. Respect for that!
Though, hopefully eventually she'll learn that true engineering means getting whatever help you can.
* The American guy claiming she's not real... ha ha. Probably an idiot, sexist, racist, American-Exceptionalist, whatever. Just finds the idea of her success story offensive to his narrow worldview, didn't bother to do any web searching, and stuck his foot-in-mouth. Now has been taught a quick lesson in not being a jerk.
Best to simply ignore such people, no matter who they are. It's very unfortunate someone like him runs an important Maker magazine. But then, virtually ALL the mainstream media is in the hands of corrupt, biased people who should be in jail for various reasons, so what else is news?
I still can't decide if I wish she was less combative, or if that is really essential to her success.
Edit: left out a point. And a word.