That second video is utterly bizarre (and sad!). How can people sitting right next to the poor guy completely fail to react? They can't be that absorbed. 
Please. That could EASILY happen, it was literally just a few seconds.
Moreover, the culture in China is reported to be one where good samaritans are often accused of malfeasance, resulting in a culture of not providing first aid.
Finally, as others have said, touching someone who is clearly being electrocuted is very dangerous itself. The kid did the right thing by yanking the cable.
sit there and play DOTA to the smell of burnt flesh??
That level of electrocution doesn’t require current sufficient to burn flesh. It’s highly unlikely any significant heating occurred.