While I understand OP’s point of view, the internet isn’t all that bad. Sure, there’s a lot of nasty and foul people and attitudes out there, but when you know in which harbours to moor there’s a lot of excellentt knowledge and people to be found.
It’s a bit like visiting other places, cities or countries. If you visit the tourist traps and main attractions, you’ll find a lot of disappointment. If you look in the back streets and where the locals go, there’s plenty of good times to be had and friends to be made.