The problem is, most of the time it's not bullying, but simply disagreeing with someone.
I disagree. You don’t see people calling others “snowflakes” simply because they disagree on whatever. It comes up specifically in the context of “how dare people expect me to be considerate of them or others? I want to continue to act as selfishly/prejudiced as I have to date.”
How were you bullied?
I got bullied as a kid and right up until I was at college. In my case this consisted of being physically assaulted, not just called bad words. Now I've realised it was I got bullied because I had issues with anxiety, which made me an easy target.
I’m sorry to hear that.
I was lucky to have escaped significant physical abuse, but verbally, I got it awful. In my case, being nerdy, sensitive and gay (the latter of which they accused me of
long before I figured it out myself, let alone came out!).
I agree people shouldn't go out of their way to upset others, but people should also not be too quick to take offense. Try to think the best of people, rather than they're out to get you.
I completely agree. But “be considerate” and “don’t be a professional victim” are not mutually incompatible demands.
That doesn't matter to snowflakes. You can be very polite to them and they'll still be mean to you, calling you a bigot, because you have a different point of view.
If it’s a bigoted point of view, it doesn’t matter whether it’s worded “politely” or not.
Those going around being offended at everything are really bullies themselves, especially when they take offense on someone else's behalf and they bring their woke mob with them.
I completely agree — and so do most people, including the very non-extreme people accused of being “woke” or “snowflakes”. (Just because there are bullies whose bullying manifests as professional victimhood doesn’t negate that there are bullies whose bullying manifests as bigotry.)
The issue is that the people who cry “snowflake!”
aren’t being asked to bend over backwards, they’re being asked to show basic respect towards other human beings. But to them,
anything is too much, so they bitch and moan.