I refuse to be too careful. Honest exchange of opinions (rather, the reasons behind those opinions, be it personal or scientific research) is vital for growth and learning. The primus motor of my own life is solving problems and learning new, interesting things; and help others build robust, useful stuff. I'm somewhat addicted to that, and pretty good at some of it, too.
It is funny how Gender politics keeps harping on how injust systems are and have been, and yet, in universities, ostensibly our highest places of learning, more conformity is required for one to participate, than has been in the past. In fact, many of the brightest minds of the past (and their oddities and personal failures, like Albert Einstein being married to his cousin, or John Nash's paranoid schizophrenia), would be rejected from current academia. Even the Soviet Union allowed extra latitude for leading scientists and engineers, because they saw their importance of their work, just appointing them KGB "chaperones" when traveling abroad.
As someone dealing with recurrent depressive disorder, removing obstacles and making life "easier" does not make anything better, and helps nobody. It only gives warm fuzzy feeling to those who think they helped others, and lets them ignore the actual results. People go to therapy not to "fix" problems, but to become stronger and able to overcome their problems.
I believe that using statistics as a basis for treating individuals differently based on their group membership -- the core of Gender politics and Social Justice -- is equivalent to coddling a person with mental issues, instead of helping them ovecome those issues via therapy and exercise (mental or physical, usually both).
Putting it in simple terms, the social justice and gender politics things mentioned in this thread, feel to me like substituting relaxing and calming medication to people who need to become stronger at overcoming obstacles to have a good, better life; and vilifying those who point out its completely negative effects in the long run.