Can you link the item page?
Seller is just making up an excuse for why they don't want to ship to your country. There may be various legitimate reasons, shipping cost too high, current delay too long, etc.
Definitely not radioactive. Unless the product specifically is advertised as such.
I do actually believe the seller, because I could track the package, and it stopped in the airport, where it got delayed and rejected. It had been through many checkpoints before that, so I think it is safe to say, that they did in fact ship the item.
How, there were some "fuckery" going on before that. It was sold as free Fedex shipment included. But it ended of beign shipped with AliExpress "
Premium" shipping.
I was not happy about it, at all. But there is practically nothing I could do about it. In the end though, the seller actually refunded all of the money the received from the transaction. AliExpress however, did fuck me over by keeping the mandatory VAT, that they were required to charge at the checkout. Fucking scumbags...

Last time I bought a unit like this, the seller didn't include the proper paperwork and documentation, resulting in me having to pay VAT twice. AliExpress dispute "judges" didn't understand the problem, and kept referring me to the rule, saying that seller is not responsible for extra fees beign applied by other governments...
You mostly only see beryllium oxide insulators, as I understand, in RF transistors, ancient magnetrons, etc. And with warnings at that in anything remotely modern. I wouldn't expect it in this case, but I am about as far from an expert as you can get.
Well, it is cell tower equipment and the unit are made for outputting 56.1A, at 53.5 volts, so I assume the mosfets do need some insanely good heat transfer, which Beryllium pads are, if I understand correctly?
And it seems like Beryllium pads are a good choice since it never dries out, because it is a hardened ceramic, which I believe is a plus in always on equipment that must not fail often, being blasted with air from al kinds of environments and conditions.
https://great-ceramic.com/beryllium-oxide-beo-ceramics/