In my younger days one thing I always hated working on was TV sets. They all had CRTs back then. And I have been hit with the residual charge on the CRT a time or three. Not from a working flyback, but just the charge remaining on the tube after it was disconnected. It was wise to discharge it more than once. But those shocks were not too bad and I was OK in a few minutes if not immediately. The thing is, the consumer TVs were deliberately made with a limited current being available from the HV circuit. It only needed to energize the tube which was as much of an insulator for that HV as they could make it. Yes, they thought of consumer safety back in the 1950s.
BUT, one time I was working on a professional, broadcast quality TV video monitor. A color one. And it had about 35 or 40 KV on the tube, not the usually lower HVs of the consumer TVs. And probably capable of somewhat more current. In this incident it was ON and I was probing around the flyback circuit and got on the wrong pin. That full Voltage went through the plastic of the probe I was holding, in my hand, out my foot, and through my sock and shoe. I found the burned in, pin holes in both places. My foot, with sock and shoe was resting on a metal foot rest of the work bench, which was grounded. It must have passed through at least a half inch (2 cm) of insulating materials in addition to my body. I felt the effects of that one for three or four hours that day. I probably should have been checked out by medical personnel, but I was young and indestructible. Today, with my 79 year old heart, it would probably kill me.
So, dangerous? Yes, and no. For the most part no. But it could be dangerous or even fatal under the right circumstances. And definitely NO FUN!
Edit: So ...
Been there,
Done that,
And didn't get the tee shirt.
I wonder if I could get one printed; "I survived 40,000 Volts!"
Not many people can say that, can they?