Please write down what to try.
Im bitbanging using arduino uno R3 board, with direct wire links to the IC pins.
I have no idea how to resize this image, to make it smaller than this.So this is a working setup, that is using
lcd.begin(0, 2, 3); // (cs=0, wr=2, Data=3)
where, cs=0 means that IC cs pin is linked to pin0 on arduino. , The same logic applies for the other pins.
in the arduino code + library.
Im using a test program to reassure everything is connected and working correctly.
Next is to actually find a way to bitbang this IC input pins. Those 3 mentioned.