That MOSFET is too small for your demands.
Let's take maximum current first: the 154 A is at a
case temperature of 25 C. That's utopic. If you're in very controlled surroundings, an
ambient temperature of 25 C can be possible. That drops max. current to 29 A. That would be an extremely marginal design,though.
An ambient temperature of 70 C would be the prudent choice.
Max. current has now dropped to 23 A, well outside of your specs. 1...2 seconds can be regarded as DC, not as pulsed.
Alternately, you'll need to cool it properly. At a case temperature of below 100 C we're back in business. That will need quite a bit of PCB copper under it.

The SOA calculation is more difficult. This depends a lot on your switching times. The toughest is mostly turn-off, where decreasing high current flow transverses increasing drain-source voltage. You'll probably need to do a SPICE simulation on that to see if you exceed the SOA.
You do know that the QN3109 is obsolete?