Golf 4: 1107 kg
Golf 5: 1302 kg
Golf ID3: 1705 kg
Golf ID4: 1966 kg
That's not "a few hundred kilograms at most between comparable cars" but 650 kg.
You are comparing some older generation of ICE vehicles with modern-day EVs, while missing the fact ICE vehicles also became heavier. It's a weird idea how a 300kg, maybe 350kg battery pack would make the car weigh 650kg more, and it obviously doesn't - add the fact that electric motors have excellent power density, so the weight
has to come from somewhere else.
So the big question is, why are cars getting heavier and more SUV-like all the time, worsening aerodynamics as well? I don't like it. It's also crap on fuel efficiency. This trend affects both ICEs and EVs. And EV designers get some slack from regenerative braking and think they can get away with extra weight, which I don't like either.
Same can be said about tires. Wider, and wider, and wider, despite the fact that optimum tire width was found decades ago and the increases have almost exclusively negative effects, including both increased fuel consumption and worse grip. They are also more expensive to buy.
I would like to see a VW Golf class EV with weight less than 1200kg. While some advances in battery energy density would be still needed to reach that goal, it seems to me it's actually not the #1 problem anymore. Too much weight from everything else than the battery. Just think about the sudden 200kg increase between your quoted Golf 4 and 5 numbers. Where did that come from? I mean, you can get pretty decent EV battery in that 200kg!