Shut down all your computers etc and knock your mains off at the wall for a few mins, see if it stops then!
It could be a SMPS psu sat somewhere, like a phone charger ETC.
*Sorry ignore the above you have tried that*
I had this issue in an apartment I lived in, same noise every night, drove me nuts! Was not there in the day, turned out it was a gas discharge street light! I got it replaced.
Are you close to a substation?, overhead pylons?
Any recent Christmas lighting gone up over the past few days on neighbours houses?
Do you get on well with your neighbours, surely if it's that irritating it might be worth popping in there later on in the evening one night to see if it's louder there?
Pull their master fuses out of the meter on the wallbox (actually dont do that

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