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The art of (internet) dating - year 2020
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jancumps:
You are rationalising a process where the ratio isn’t the controlling part of our brain. How many of us decide whom they fall in love with, then make a series of logical steps to a steady future?
bd139:
Indeed. In my case I followed my dick and ended up married and I admit that.
SilverSolder:

--- Quote from: jancumps on January 26, 2020, 11:22:13 pm ---You are rationalising a process where the ratio isn’t the controlling part of our brain. How many of us decide whom they fall in love with, then make a series of logical steps to a steady future?

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Totally agree.

I should probably just have said:  A long term relationship may result after the irrational, random phase is over!
Stray Electron:

--- Quote from: bd139 on January 26, 2020, 11:55:16 pm ---Indeed. In my case I followed my dick and ended up married and I admit that.

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  LOL!  Sometimes that works out ok.  My first wife and I were passionately in love but it didn't work out. I followed my dick the next time and I've been married longer than many of you have been alive.
james_s:

--- Quote from: floobydust on January 26, 2020, 08:41:37 pm ---The women I know looking for love and dating (after having kids, divorce etc), they complain men only want something casual and that they have a harem. They make the rounds, and any friction and a gal gets easily dumped. There is nothing for commitment, it's not needed it seems.

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Men like that have always existed, an older friend of mine went to college in the early 70s and mentioned a friend of his in school who "majored in fornication", it's always been a thing.

The pool of men looking to be the step-dad of some other man's kids is considerably smaller than that seeking women without such existing commitments however kids are not a huge obstacle to a casual fling. It's only natural that it's harder for those women to find a guy who wants something long term.
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