My question: do any EEs here actually use Calc III to do their work?
I have no idea what it means. The US seems to have split a range of calculus related topics into nationally standardised chunks with associated numbers. If you haven't studied in the US the terms are meaningless. Perhaps there a list of topics, and an idea of how deeply they treat them, in each chunk available on the web somewhere.
Having just finished my course, I can give you a decent idea of what was covered. Started out with vectors, doing dot products and cross products, so we could learn about planes and normal vectors... From there we got into partial derivatives and got introduced to gradients, and them we moved into double and triple integrals. Once we had that under our belt we started dealing with vector calculus, which seems really relevant to an EE. We used this theorem called the Fundamental Theorem of Line Integrals, basically it boils down to the difference between two points in a conservative vector field is the difference between f(b) - f(a). Almost like measuring the potential difference between two points in an electric field. Of course we didn't get into theory there, just the math, I kind of put two and two together... We finished with Divergence Theorem, Stokes' Theorem, and Green's Theorem.
Next semester is nothing to do with being an EE, and I am moving to 2 classes instead of 3. I'll probably be able to do more online learning this way, but 3 in person classes along with a fulltime job and a side business was stretching me quite thin. Especially since I was relearning calc I & II while taking calc III. I think the semester after that I will be taking Physics II and finally starting on EE courses with a Circuits class.
I am happy I am going back to school though, I struggled with the decision for a while, but it has been a good experience.