I've been using nothing but cast iron for frying and fair bit of baking the past 6 years or so. I have a set of about a dozen pans ranging in size from #3 to #10 with a dutch oven in the mix. The age of the pieces range from nearly 100 years (a Wapak) to a Lodge bought from the factory website within the past few years (a buffalo nickel design pan).
Here are the things I've found, YMMV:
- canola is great for seasoning. Chances are pretty good you already have it. If you don't, it's cheap, easy to find, and works well as a general purpose cooking oil. There's no need to get an expensive boutique oil for seasoning.
- splotchy seasoning is fine unless the looks bother you (which is a completely legit concern)
- smooth vs "textured" surface doesn't matter much. By "textured" I mean of the modern Lodge variety - I'm not sure if you get a pan that is shark skin rough if that will still perform well or not. I actually prefer the performance of the Lodge textured pans over my smooth pans, but only by a very small amount. I use both regularly.
- for cleaning, I find that hot tap water and a good nylon scrubber (but not the super abrasive scotchbrite) handles my cleanup more than 95% of the time:
- wipe out the major stuff and the majority of any oil left in the pan
- give it good rinse with hot tap water and scrub with the nylon pad
Usually that's it. Sometimes a little elbow grease is called for. If it gets to be too much elbow grease, I have a chain mail scrubber that takes care of things, but I only have to call on that maybe once every couple of months.
I never clean the pans until they are cool enough to handle without protection; doing otherwise seems to be asking for trouble. I never have to boil water in them to get them cleaned (OK, maybe I've done that once or twice). And putting them on a heated burner to dry? Why? Wipe them down with a towel and let air drying take care of the rest.
I've seen countless posts on r/castiron where someone was drying their pan on a burner, forgot about it and ended up scorching the seasoning off. While that's not a huge deal (the pan can be reseasoned), there's just no reason for it. And maybe someone (your kid? maybe even you!) picks up the pan without realizing that it's hot and burns themselves.
Speaking of which - make sure the pot holders/oven mitts/kitchen towel you use to pick up a hot cast iron pan isn't damp! I've learned that lesson the hard way a couple times. My wife always puts silicone handle covers on the pan when she's cooking. I don't like them - they feel too loosey-goosey.
My big r/castiron heresy: I've found that cooking bacon isn't a great seasoning method. If anything, cooking bacon is actually
hard on whatever seasoning is on the pan. I also find that the best way to cook bacon in cast iron (and probably other types of pans) is "low and slow". I put the pan at a temperature where the bacon just begins to sizzle and let it cook at that temperature until it's done. The hardest part for me is that I have a difficult time recognizing when it's done. I check and think it needs a little more time, check again and think it still needs a little more time, then I check and it's gone too far - way too crispy. I'm not sure what it'll take for me to learn to take it out before it gets to that point. One day...
As far as the foods that do the best to add/improve seasoning? Breads. Or other baked goods (coffee cake is my #1). Hands down.
There are only two things where I find cast iron inferior to other types of frying pans:
- heat distribution - cast iron definitely gets hot spots. You learn to manage (move the food around in the pan, move the pan around on the burner, and/or pre-heat the pan in the oven).
- cast iron pans are *heavy*. Especially when you get to larger than #8 frying pans.
In spite of those two deficiencies, I don't see myself moving back to aluminum or steel pans (non-stick or otherwise).