Having been an audio enthusiast for many years, and also, importantly, a music lover, I can suggets one way to shut audiophool nonsense up, the blind listening test!
I have a friend who is fortunate enough to be VERY rich, to the extent that spending £250K and more on audio is not an issue. I have always taken the piss out of him for this, saying that for an otherwise intelligent person he demonstrates all the intellectual ability of a single cell life form
when it comes to audio.
So, some years ago, I challenged him to the blind listening test, which, with some bullying from me he eventually agreed to, the phool!
His UK home made the ideal location, as it had vast space and, a dedicated listening room. I rigged up my system, all bought used and costing a paltry £2k max, along with his collossus of a system, both behind screens! With 3 other friends as witnesses we went through a 10 track play list and all filled in comment forms indicating preferences and which system we thought was in play etc. The guy charged with playing the tracks stayed behind the screens and was to keep a record of what played on what when.
The results were embarassing for my friend! Not once did he choose his own system as his preference, and actually made some insulting comments about it! The overall preference was for my system!
This was a technique we used in a Hi-Fi shop I worked in at one time, when customers could not choose between items of equipment they were considering to buy. With the bias of make and model taken out of the equation, the choice was made easy, and often saved them alot of money!