(Fix your quote!)
Why do you guys in the UK have to upgrade your utility meters on your own initiative? I thought you lived in even more of a cocoon/nanny state than we do over here.
Because it's not a one-dimensional cocoon/nanny to non-cocoon/non-nanny scale.
For example, here in Finland, it is illegal to use more violence than is absolutely necessary to defend oneself. (Someone just tried to push for something similar in California, and was promptly shut down.)
Yes, many (most?) actually disagree with that here, and think that law is unjust, as it often leads to victims having to pay their attackers' medical costs. We do have at least one case when someone stopped a street rape by punching the rapist, and ended up having to pay fines (a couple of hundred €) to that rapist.
On the other hand, we don't have the "I'll sue you for millions!" court system. Typically, lawyers' fees (a few k) are greater than the penalties. Biggest costs are when someone loses their ability to work, as then the insurance companies can bill you for a long time. Even the fines and reparations for "hate speech" haven't gotten higher than 40k or so, to my knowledge –– but it does feel strange that it is cheaper to puch someones teeth in or break both their arms, than call them names in public. If you want to kill someone, do it while drunk driving, and you'll likely get off with a suspended sentence (precedents exist).
So, I'd say it is all about local quirks and historical precedent and cultural details, than being "on" some nanny scale.