Fuck Eagle, really. It's a dying product. KiCad has it's flaws and needs lots of development, but it's free. I'm trying to adapt to it, but it's not easy for me.
No, it's not a dying product. It works, it's cross platform, does what it says on the tin.
KiCAD is due a stable release, but I doubt you will still be able to adapt to it if you can't in it's current development stage.
I hate Eagle, despite I still use it. I'm still unable to switch to KiCad. Altium is really expensive.
If you hated Eagle that much, you wouldn't use it.
I have problems learning how to make footprints and symbols in Eagle, it's very frustrating for me.
So because you can't do things in Eagle, or adapt to a different package, you seem to see this as Eagle's fault, maybe you don't like Eagle because you don't know how to use it....
I think you should use whatever package you feel comfortable using, but don't start ranting on a package because it's the only one you have bothered to attempt to use and it doesn't do things exactly how you like, there was a new release not that long ago, it's far from being "dead" or "dying", if there were no updates for the last 2 years or so then I would be suspiciously inclined to agree, but it's had more development than DipTrace has, that was over a year ago when Eagle was on V6!
It might be "outdated" compared to some packages, but I still know people and companies using Seetrax Ranger and an ancient version of Easy PC!