Hello,
In early v9.x the SMASH command was removed and everything became auto-smashed. This did cause a lot of irritation and complaining over on the official Autodesk EAGLE forum. In 9.3, to correct the issues caused by this, there is now a new way to hide all the handles for the attributes. When the group or info commands are activated there is now a new "Enable Attributes" button on the toolbar at the top. Clicking this enables you to toggle the visibility of the grab handles on the attributes. There is still some improvement needed, it needs to be available in more tools (or everywhere) and it needs to be independent between schematic and board, hopefully they'll do this in an upcoming release.
Best Regards,
Rachael