I do find the reluctance to update really stupid if I'm honest here
I ran up my laptop yesterday to quickly check out some stuff then shut it down. Or tried - it decided it's going to install some update, so I couldn't put it away until that had done it's stuff.
That's one aspect. The other is that I prefer to use my computers just like I drive a car - that is, I don't think about it. I'm thinking about what I want to achieve, not the mechanics of doing that. Go round this corner? Done, I don't have to think that I need to turn the wheel a bit - no! a bit more! oh, too much - it's a sub-conscious thing. Similarly, I don't want to be thinking this is a right click or drag'n'hold or whatever, I want it to just happen. Microsofts updates often break things and change things so you're always aware that you're using the OS, much like if the car manufacturer nipped into my garage one night and changed the wheel to a lever.
Actually, I hate taking my car into a garage because the blighters move the seat. I can put it back where it was, but they change the rake too and it takes me weeks to not quite get it back to how it was but close enough to stop feeling like something is wrong.
If Microsoft would just fix things, fine, but they don't. And you don't have a choice about whether to accept the new non-windowed windows or invisible buttons and scrolling hints that only show
after you start scrolling, etc.