I will throw my 2c's in, in line with what people have said above.
For starter kits, Terasic (Intel FPGAs) and Digilent (Xilinx FPGAs) have a range of excellent boards, from starter to all-included.
If you want to start with a processor, you can do with the NeoRV32, not because it's the best, but the documentation helps you get started in minutes and details the complete processor. I put a NeoRV32 into a Cyclone IV Terasic board in no time at all, and had a blinky running also minutes after. Same with the Digilent boards.
https://www.neorv32.org/Worth mentioning, Intel Quartus Software and Xilinx Vivado Software use about 20+ GB hard disk space. Make sure you have that. The more FPGA models you experiment with, the more space you will need.
My suggestion, start with a simple FPGA blinky, get familiar with the Constraint Files (setting pins, voltages, clock frequencies, etc) and the development environment. Remember, FPGA logic is not sequential... all statements happen at the same time, which requires a bit of getting used to. Just talking about my first experience with FPGAs 20 odd years ago.
All in all, a very worthwhile experiment, there's TONS of flexibility in FPGAs with a lot of complexity.
Cheers,
Alberto