Your points, position, and arguments mutate every time counterexamples show them to be lacking. That's not unreasonable, but beware the "no true Scotsman fallacy".
of course they do. there is only one constant : it all depends. nothing is clear cut. it all depends on circumstances.
i state that asic is cheaper if you are going for full performance and want to push the technology hard especially as a selling point. Real logic will always outperform fpga. FPGA has too much internal delays, delays that can be easier eliminated i hard logic as opposed to the routing fabric in an fpga.
you counterstate: look at the agilent logic analyser cards.
i counterstate : yes they used fpga but because it is low volume and they can afford to plonk down oodles of money for devices that co do the work ( those devices were not cheap back in the day those boards were deigned !) they got the performance they needed at the price they could afford ( ever seen the new price of one of those boards ? some were over 30.000 $ ). and even at that price it was cheaper than designing an asic simply because of the volume. ASIC has a large NRE.
look at the megazoom asic : there they did go full custom. simply because the number of oscilloscopes is 100 x or more larger than the number of those logic analysers. it woudl not make sense to use an FPGA.
i hear you coming with another counterpoint : but but the own/siglent/rigol are all using the xilinx zync. yes, but that thing didn't exist 10 years ago ! that's why the 4000 series et al are using megazoom asics. and once go to the faster scopes that zync thing can't cope either. wanna push the limit real hard in the 20+Gs/s you'll need to resort to something other than silicon.... your fpga cannot cope . that's why the real speed demons are indium phosphide semiconductors. There's two waferfabs in the world that can process those. ( the actual transsitors are Indium - gallium arsenide. the indium phosphide is the substrate). they only exist as 3 or 4 inch wafers as they are brittle.
and i hear another counterpoint coming : "but that's low volume ! you said asic is for high volume.." ,yes, except if the costs are irrelevant. they can afford to make those weirdo parts for the few hundred scopes they will ever sell. there simply is no other way to get the performance. and the people needing those scopes will pay.
Nobody in their right mind would even consider that an FPGA is suitable in all cases.
just like nobody in their right mind would consider an asic is suitable in all cases. why would fpga's exist ?
So FPGAs aren't the fastest devices and have their own limitations? I encourage you to submit that remarkable revelation to the IEEE so it can be published in a learned journal.
Been there, done that : published in IEEE ETW99 (and gave the speech) as well as "journal of computer standards and interfaces" and IMEKO TC congress. Detailed a FPGA based data generation/acquisition system to test fast A/D-D/A. back in the day (1997) there was nothing that could do what we needed, so i rolled my own. Designed it using schematic capture and Verilog in the xilinx tools on Sun workstation. used a 3000 series coupled with lots of fast SRAM.
https://www.ieee-ets.org/past_events/etw99/pre_program.html look for "pulsar"
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0920548999000173