ZFS is good but yes, it's resource-intensive. But the fact it's not officially supported by Linux is a major issue for me. Whether one cares about the licensing or not, it's just NOT supported by the Linux kernel, which means that there is no guarantee of any working state between a given version of (Open)ZFS and the kernel. That's a no-no for me. I want to be able to freely update my kernels, and not have this restriction, and have to use specific kernels just for this.
How do you know it's resource intensive if you didn't use it?

There is no such things as "supported" by Linux. "Supported by" is about proprietary and closed source OSs. The Linux kernel has a set of well defined mechanisms to interface with. Kernel interfacing mechanisms do not change over night, and do not get deprecated/discontinued without warning the users and devs with many years in advance.
There is nothing else you need to do about ZFS when the kernel updates. You type once "sudo apt install zfsutils-linux" (or whatever install would be for the Linux flavor you use), and that's it. After that, you can upgrade the kernel or the rest of the OS any time you want, as if you never installed the OpenZFS. ZFS doesn't need any special attention at a Linux update.
Not trying to convince you to install ZFS, only pointing to misbeliefs.
Aside from the FS question, it's curious to me how nitpicking arguments returned by a search engine can weight more than first-hand testimonies in this very topic, from people saying they used ZFS for years.
Whatever FS you'll choose, keep backups for important/personal data. A good FS/OS is not enough when it comes to theft, fire, malware, etc.
Good luck testing FSs, and pick the one(s) you like most!
