Yes, I drive stick. I despise automatic transmissions. Boring. Yet I still use an iPhone. Because it just works and I don't have to screw with it all the time.
Comparing hardware specs with iPhones and Android devices is pointless. The Apple SOC is higher performing, but in ther raw terms of RAM and other things - yeah, it seems obvious that the Android device has a better spec - ie, more of whatever. Except, it's not that simple. It's like saying my Windows PC is better than your Linux PC because I have 32GB RAM and you only have 8GB. Android simply requires more RAM to perform. That's why the 'flagship' Android phones now have 12 and 16GB RAM in them. IOS doesn't need that much to work well.
It's fun looking at the comparison charts and seeing xyz Android (usually a Samsung - which an even bigger point, Samsung uses different SOCs in different countries, their own piss poor one or the latest Qualcomm in others - so even two otherwise identical model Samsung phones aren't actually identical) blow all the others away in benchmarks. All the other ANDROID phones that is. Stick in the latest iPhones and oops - what happened, Samsung? Real world's not much different.
It doesn't matter which camera looks better on paper, if the supposedly 'lesser' one results in qualitatively better pictures and video. No one phone wins all the various photo scenarios, so all those tricks of cramming in 108 megapixels now, or periscope cameras, or 4 or more cameras in the phone are little more than marketing gimmicks to make the particular model sound more impressive even if it doesn't actually deliver results.